Monday, February 9, 2015

Chemical locha

Recently I heard my roommates early morning argument (which BTW woke me up) about the usage of toxic substances like marijuana by Hindu sadhus in Himalayas. I don’t know the right or wrong about its usage. But was always fascinated about the effects of neurochemical stimulants. So I started searching for it. I accidently fumbled upon the neurochemical known as dopamine. Also some other interesting facts like discovery of DNA structure, psychoanalysis theories by the famous Sigmund Freud and Coca-Cola were made when they were high.

            This is the hormone released during the sense of pleasure. And there are many instances when these are secreted. Instances like falling in love, been religious, meditation, and yoga or by smoking marijuana. That’s the reason why people feel low during break-ups, or when they miss their doss of marijuana. When a person is high or in love the feeling of pleasure addicts them to it. Thus the sudden decrease in the level causes anxiety, depression and low feeling. As drugs and love are external factors and almost uncontrollable there is an importance of meditation and religiousness in the any culture. These two things can be controlled by the person himself. As the modern scientist made some discoveries when high, Some Indian rishis made them by practicing yoga and meditation.

     Hope the understanding of this chemical locha can be useful in our lives and choose things wisely. We can see many people undergo depression post hear breaks and destroy their lives on drugs. It’s not that you shouldn't love, but just understand the reason and work on the post heart break traumas. We have some other healthy options like meditation, yoga or been religious. So choose wisely. J


Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Keep Calm and Love on

 We see movies, hear songs or poems about heart breaks or see graphic pictures with some cute girl or guy with a tear in their eyes and a image with a broken heart just because someone they care stopped having relationship with them. Most of the heart broken patients blame love virus for ruining their lives and shattering their perception about being happy. After such incidents most think love as a burden and as a bad thing. And keep themselves as far as they can. They think it as a thing that makes them numb as some poet/philosopher would say “dead inside”, but in fact love is the one that keeps us alive.   

Love someone who grew old taking care of you. It’s only right to give back the affection and care she’s been giving you since your first breath.

Love someone who put you through pain because that love will be your warning to stop hurting her/him back. The love you give to someone who brings you sadness is the love that will make you strong. Besides, the only way to make a room full of loathe breathable is to make love overpower the hatred.

Love someone you can’t get enough of. You will be so used to the feeling of thrills and excitement that if it goes away, you will feel crazier than ever.

Love someone who is dead. Your memories with her/him will be the fuel that will keep you going. It will serve as your guidance for an eternal kind of love. No matter how long it has been since you last saw him, you know your love for her/him will never die.

Love someone who broke your heart. As much as you want to forget her/him because remembering the good times you had with her/him brings you tears, you know you can’t erase the memories you shared with her/him. Stop being bitter because at some point in your life, she/he gave you the happiness that you wanted and needed.

Love someone who you think is not even worth it because no matter how much it seems some people are not worthy, every one of us is still entitled to be loved.

Love someone you do not know. You’ll never know if one day, you will come across a stranger’s path again and with a twist of fate, you will be the one in dire need of some cheering up.

Love because even if it brings you pain at times, it still brings out the best in you. But most of all, love not for the reasons or causes that will benefit you, but because you are a wonderful person capable of sharing your light with people.

Don’t attach the meaning of grief in love because you have been broken once or too many times. No matter how much you deny that you will open your heart again, without noticing it, you are going to love. Stop being so scared and just love. Don’t let a heartbreak ruin your potential of loving. Too many opportunities will be wasted if you decide to give up on love.

But if the time will come and love will fail you once more, stitch your heart and love again. Being hurt because of love is inevitable anyway.

So Keep calm and love on. :)